Your search for "Reason gains all people by compelling none. - Aaron Hill –1685 - 1750" revealed the following:

RW-3.7 - Earnestness is enthusiasm tempered by reason. - Blaise Pascal 1623 - 1662

Nobody minds having what is too good for them. - Jane Austen 1775 - 1817 - RW-16.2

Never find fault with the absent. - Alexander Pope 1688 - 1744 - RW-18.2

Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing. - Oscar Wilde 1854 - 1900 - YT-1.7